life is uncertain

We sarted in 2012 dec.fell in love in feb 2013 she loved him ..but as none knows he didnt love her...but for the time being he approacjed her..she tjought that was love she n he started meeting n making love....one day after few mnths she came to know0 he is married ...it was groundshaking moment...but she loved him afetr again few mnths in mid 2013 she came to know he has a child of 5 yrs a son..she was completly shattered..that boy in d begning of therealtion said to girl that he wants to make love but not marriaage..she thought it was a joke....but she got completely shattered the she realized that girls r thing whom boys use n these kind of boys keep their wives safe from their kind people...n today its april 30 2014 she miss him n love him..but he no matter busy wid his wife..when she ask him do u love me he says yes then she asks him do u love ur wife he says its a bond which he has to live wid.....ultimately girl is at loss physically mentally heartly emotionally........but she love him.....